Somewhere along the way, society decided that women of a certain age are supposed to be serious.
As if we had our fun decades ago.
As if the moment we hit 40, 50, 60, we traded in our joy for orthopedic shoes and quiet hobbies.
Well… no.
Absolutely not.
Because here’s the truth: women of a more mature age haven’t lost their sense of fun – we’ve finally stopped apologizing for it.
When we’re younger, we’re often busy trying to fit in, going along with the crowd, or worrying about what people might think. But once we hit that glorious stage of life where the filter falls off and the confidence kicks in, something magical happens.
We stop caring about other people’s opinions.
We release ourselves from expectations.
We do what we want, when we want, and how we want.
And, yes – it often embarrasses our children, who are still very invested in what the neighbors might think. But that’s half the fun.
So how does our silliness show up? Oh, let me count the ways.
Girls’ Night Out
One of my greatest joys is a night out with the girls. It doesn’t matter what we do – we always manage to have fun. We’ve done arts and crafts nights, dinners, sip‑and‑shops, Galentine’s events, luncheons, bingo, bonfires, and more.
And these gatherings? They get loud.
When I’m with my daughter, and I get a little boisterous, she’ll whisper, “Mom, settle down.”
Not with the ladies.
With them, we crank the volume all the way up.
If you don’t have a circle of women like this, consider creating one. Truly. There are women out there longing for connection, for laughter, for belonging. You can find each other through online communities, clubs, volunteer groups, work, church, neighbors, or mutual friends. The possibilities are endless – you just have to put yourself out there.
Date Nights
Fun doesn’t stop at friendship – romance deserves its share of joy, too.
If you have a spouse or significant other, don’t forget to get out there and date each other. Go somewhere new, revisit an old favorite, or do something a little silly just because you can. There’s something magical about carving out time to reconnect, flirt, laugh, and remember that partnership is supposed to be enjoyable, not just logistical.
And if you’re single and craving companionship?
Dip that beautifully polished toe right into the dating pool.
You never know what – or who – might surprise you. Whether it’s online dating, meeting someone through friends, or striking up a conversation at a bookstore or café, romance isn’t reserved for the young. In fact, it can be sweeter, steadier, and far more fun when you know who you are and what you want.
Traveling
Another perk of being a woman of a certain age? We’re more likely to have the time, the resources, and the confidence to travel. Whether it’s a solo getaway, a group trip, a spontaneous road adventure, or a big international escape – go.
There are group tours where you can meet new friends, or you can pack up your spouse, your kids, your partner, or your besties and hit the road. And don’t underestimate the joy of a solo trip. There’s something deeply satisfying about choosing your own pace, your own meals, your own adventures.
Everything Else That Makes Life Fun
Concerts. Festivals. Book clubs. Outdoor adventures. Game nights. Classes. Workshops. Retreats.
Honestly, I haven’t even scratched the surface.
The point is simple: we still like a good time.
We like to laugh – loudly.
We like to be silly.
We like to squeeze every drop of joy out of the moments we’re given.
And while we may have a few grays and wrinkles, it’s the happiness in our hearts – the freedom, the friendship, the laughter – that keeps us young.
Let’s Have a Conversation:
How do you have fun? Is it different than before 60? Do you have fun loudly? With company? On your own?